Thread:Rigbybestie1510/@comment-4839682-20131006182925/@comment-4839682-20131008065333

No, Brooke, you misunderstand. I don't care much about you or your opinion, at least when it comes to me being told that you were talking trash about me. Rigs, however, I do, and she and I have said our pieces elsewhere, and I did count her as a friend. As for you, why can't I express my "opinion" the same way you usually do? How about I go around and curse at you and call you names on other places, or attack peole you care about, and see how you feel about it? I was never disrespectful to you, and you know it. I have never insulted you. I have expressed my dislike of things you do, but i don't insult you. And everything I've ever said I've pretty much entirely said TO you directly. I also don't hate you. I don't like some of your behaviors, but I don't "hate" you. I'd have no issue with you (and Rig) if it wasn't for some of the stuff you have started yourself, not just about/with me, but even going back to when Evan was here. (And I'll admit, I might have a chip on my shoulder about that, but it's old, and not part of this current thing)

You unfortunately have a history of starting stuff, or expressing yourself with anger and insults. You get a lot further when you don't do stuff like that.

If you have issues with rule changes, that's fine, but there's ways to go about it. Throwing a tantrum isn't one of them, and that's what you have a tendency to do. If you'd like to have a discussion, calmly, about your opinion, we can do that. However, this "Utter is running the wiki!" stuff is crap. You have no idea how any of this stuff came about, clearly. It's a bunch of changes, yes, and they take getting used to, but it's not "Utter wants to do this so we're doing it!" I apologize if it may seem that way, but it's not. It's stuff that was being talked about a year and a half ago, that was recently decided to be enacted. These things were decided by the entire staff, not me alone. I know I'm the one who is actually doing some of the changes, like actually deleting things, so it's easy to blame me, but that isn't accurate.

And I'd like to say, it was my understanding that I was being insulted at a time when I wasn't there to defend myself. Nobody likes that. If that's not the case, I apologize.

Finally, I want to say that I really appreciate this calm approach you're taking. Rig did the same, and I greatly prefer this style of talking, actually talking, instead of everybody just getting upset at each other. This way, we can talk things out and come to an understanding, which, honestly, would be great.